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November 18, 2003



Maybe the term, "it'll come when you least expect it" is a bit misleading. How about "it'll come when you let yourself quit dwelling on it"?

Don't overanalyze love. It will kill any relationship.

I don't want this to come off like I'm teeing off on you - you know I read here a lot.

Love is only as difficult as you make it.


Why is it that it is so hard to find someone?

Who ever said you can't work hard at love in hopes of achieving something great? I think that might the problem today. Everyone has little cliches they live their lives by and act as if these cliches are somehow doctrine. Love takes work. It's not blind luck.

Stanford Blatch

Why is it that it is so hard to find someone?

Because people watch too much tv and get sucked into these false hopes. Plus they over-analyze everything, love is a simple concept.

News Alert: Carrie Bradshaw is not real!


Stanford's got a point. Love really isn't walking around the streets of NYC until the crack of dawn because you are so caught up in each other you can't go home. You have to go home. You have jobs to go to and responsibilities to attend to. It's not as glam as that. Therein lies a lot of the disappointment, I believe. But I am a "smug married" so what do I know?? :)


In general, I've met too many people whose self-worth was valued based on whether or not they were dating someone. Methinks you have to love yourself before another can - speaking from experience.


if you can't be with the one you love, honey, love the one your're with.


Great article, Aubs. This seems to be a hot topic lately. There is a new book that recently came out called the "Opt Out Revolution" - focussing less on relationships but more on how things have changed for women since Women's Lib. Interesting topic....

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