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September 26, 2004



Ouch. Oh, the truth hurts.


Sometimes we ARE into you but we pretend to not care. Women are attracted to aloofness for some reason. We'll still send you signals though.


I think fatigue is part of it too. The old "I've been dating since I was 15, where IS he?" thing. The "I'm so sick of guys not working out and this is the 50th and he was so danged close to perfect except for a few things, and I just want to STOP LOOKING and I'm tired of having to throw away guy after guy because 'he's just not that into me' and I don't WANT that to be anymore and I don't want to be single any goddamned more and I don't want him to stop liking me, so I'm going to keep holding out hope that he won't stop."

I've decided to not look for men any more for a reason.


"If only we could realize that not being well suited for each other doesn't make us unsuitable, we'd change these behaviors."

That is the crux of the matter. It has to start with you.

Great post. Really, great.

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