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August 01, 2008



awesome!! so many gems in this one.


I guess I understand what you said. It is certainly not easy and I like it that you are such a down-to-earth girl with this honest and simple approach. But I still believe men with real balls should do the pursuit. Maybe obvious hints for your knight once a while to keep him going.

My 2 cents. Dating is tricky and I am no expert on it.


I'm no expert and I've been kind of shy with women lately. But, i think that if you are interested in someone you should start the pursuit. I don't expect a girl to start i just go, and if she comes I'm totally ok with it. On the telling what you want, i think that has to come little by little like a trial and error thing. We don't need to be straight forward in telling " i wan this and that" just let him or her (in my case) know a little bit more of what you want as you figure out. But guys must understand that they will make mistakes and learn to know the girl with time, i think many are not willing to make a relationship grow with time.

That's my 2 cents, now we add up 4!

mark devillier

hey i follow u on twitter and didn't know how to send you a direct message but i just saw u on the today show.. hell yeah.. that's crazy.. anyway, just thought that was cool.. peace out


Sure sounds simple to me.


It's not that dating is tricky, it's just a trick all in all. I'm a firm believer in there being "something else there", some subconscious connection or some compatibility on a level we never think twice to consider. We've all been there, you find this guy/girl and essentially, you're perfect for each other. You have the same interests, humor, hobbies, etc. But something isn't there. And oh how convenient it would be for you to just fall head over heels for this person! But there's a lack of chemistry and you're stuck on friend-status. No one's fault, just not gonna happen. We have no control over who we are attracted to so by bother trying? When you think about it, dating is really just trial and error. You see something you like, you take it, if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be and we inevitably try again. But when your adventures are over...indescribable.

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